6/28: Agualongo
I woke earlier today with the rest of the fam...well, most of them. Alex & Mario slept in b/c they didn’t have school today, but Ramiro, Maria Juana and the two little ones (who all share a bed) were up & at them. I took the extra time to stretch my aching body. The rocks are taking their toll to be sure, but I’m hoping I’ll just get stronger and my body will remember those years spent on the farm doing daily manual labor - was that really 10 years ago?
My stretch was followed by a “dinner for breakfast” of the same potato/cabbage/oat soup from the night before, followed by mild queeziness exacerbated by the 40 minutes of bumps and bounces on the bus ride to the vivero. The mountains were in all their glory today and for the first time we saw the snaw capped peak of Cayambe, ECU’s third tallest. Imbaburra & Cotacachi rounded out our bowl and were clear as bells. The combined beauty was enough to quell the queeziness and keep my breakfast down.
We split the group up for some much needed variety of tasks, but I was feeling zen about pushing the wheelbarrow full of gravel up the hill and stuck with it all day. Maybe I’m already getting stronger - I knew my body would remember.
On average, spirits were high, but both Catie & Lizzie were feeling the effects of something and were more or less out of commission. Catie blew chunks and felt a little better, Lizzie pushed through several false alarms. Edward was also feeling ill and after thorough cross examination admitted to having loose stool and to taking imodiums and not drinking enough water. This kid is a bit of an inigma to us and we’re not sure if he’s having any fun at all. As I think about it now, he shows some signs of asbergers. He doesn’t quite know how to interact with the other kids and during pre-trip he asked me why that scene in Pulp Fiction when Travolta & Uma are dancing is considered so cool. “It’s considered cool because it’s cool” was my smart ass response, but he didn’t get that either. These kids of privilege are so gifted in some ways and yet so deficient in others.
Three things in homestay tonight blew my mind: 1) the look on my host brothers’ (and cousin’s) faces when they invited me to play cards and I sat on the (dirt) floor - they immediately went and grabbed a woven mat to sit on; 2) when the cell phone rang, they nearly jumped out of their skin and raced to be the first to reach it and answer it - Mario won, and with a tone as if he was communicating with an extra terrestrial said very loudly and slowly “alo”; 3) Cesar, mid-card game, stood up, walked to the bucket between the stove and the door, dropped his pants and took a piss. So that’s what that bucket is for! And I thought the pigs just ate the food scraps that were thrown in there - they get a little urine to wash it all down.
Our group meeting went well tonight - I had them make 4 lists: 1) most challenging moments thus far; 2) biggest differences noticed; 3) proudest moments thus far; 4) goals for week 2. After making the lists, I had them pair up and share, making sure to mix up juniors and seniors, and after that we shared with the whole group ‘fish bowl’ style where the speaker sits in the middle of the circle. I made them do it Southern Baptist-style encouraging Amens and hallaluyas from the circle when they agreed or related to what was being said. It was probably my best work yet, which means that after a week, I too am finally feeling comfortable enough to focus on the work at hand. I closed it out by reading my last journal entry and then helped rally a poop team to unclog one of the toilets in the community center that we were all using. It was pretty MacGuiver as we took a long piece of conduit and used it to blow air into the clogged pipe - apparently, plungers haven’t made it to Ecuador yet.

